So confused and need advice?!?

I am guessing your mother may a be a bit upset as she doesn't want to see u hurt again. As for your father..he may have come to his senses and realizes what he has missed out on....I certainly hope it's not just because he thinks it will create tension in the family since he having it created for him with child support..and I in no way am I saying he shouldn't pay it....you should be able to see..that he didn't care when he decided not to pay and support your needs as well as his own. He probably ignored your calls just as he ignored making payments towards your well being..a little harder to deny the person basic help when you having a good relationship with them..